A pain filled marriage

Dear Aletha, All during my married life, I have not only been a victim of verbal and emotion abuse but also an abuser. I truly think that my husband and I are both at fault in our relationship. Throughout almost 22 years of marriage, he has almost never helped me grow spiritually and has almost never supported me in my endeavors. In my opinion, he has only cared about me for what I can do for him. My assessment may be incorrect, but I can say what I feel. Most of my pain is that I've spent all… More information...